On this page you will find information about the various ways you can work with me on the relationship with yourself, others, and your surroundings:
- Relationship Path Exploration Session (acquaintance, insights & utanglement in an extra-long individual session)
- Relationship Path Counseling Trajectory (individual in-depth counseling trajectory)
- Relationship Path Mapping (taylor-made individual self-research journey, guided by me, in combination with counseling)
- Shared Center Work Themed Sessions (listening to the undercurrent with partner(s))
Relationship path Exploration Session
An extra long 1.5 hour session, in which we'll explore whatever is currently on your mind relationship wise - whether it's the challenge of finding a fulfilling relationship, a question you're grappling with in your current relationship, or the struggle to move on after a break-up. No topic is too strange, everything is open for discussion and exploration. Together, we'll listen deeply and work towards gaining clarity about your situation, ultimately identifying concrete follow-up steps that are tailored to your unique needs.
Exploration sessions can be used standalone (it's not uncommon that one session is all you need to find your bearings!); but also function as the starting point for a deep-dive counseling trajectory or personally customized version of the signature 'Relationship path Mapping Journey', in which I walk alongside you for a longer period.
|1,5-hour relationship path exploration
|Exploration Session (1st exploration)
|€ 89 (single-use introduction rate for our first extra long session of 1,5 hours)
Click here to book your Exploration session.
Prefer to talk and get acquanted first? Sure: let's hop on a 15-minute introductory call! This no obligations 'see-if-we-click' call of course is completely free of charge - and can be expanded to a full Exploration Session of 75 minutes (at a later time), so you'll keep your 1st exploration rate.
Relationship path Counseling
Delving deeper into something that is at play, working through it, or exploring a new issue to regain clear direction. All themes are welcome: relationship decision making, grieving breakups, addressing recurring patterns, as well as managing anxiety and tension surrounding relationships. I truly walk alongside you, providing exercises and insights for connection, utilizing stories and therapeutic methods to untangle complexities – tailored to where you are and what you currently need.
By the end of your trajectory, you will have gained more understanding of relevant aspects within your relationship landscape, regained clarity in your direction, and developed a deeper insight into personal patterns. Additionally, you will have taken concrete steps towards handling these situations and continuing on your path in a more wise and effective manner.
|Number of sessions
|€ 89 per hour*
|€ 84 per hour
|€ 80 per hour
|€ 78 per hour
Relationship path Mapping Customized Self-Research Journey
Do you suspect that there is a pattern that you yourself are a part of? Do you have a feeling that the larger system you live in highly influences your love life? Do you want to delve deeper into what is going on in your case and find direction, but don't know where to start?
Then sign up for a taylor-made guided self-research trajectory in which you'll map out your personal relationship path. Step by step, you will systematically uncover the aspects and lines that consciously and unconsciously have shaped your path, based on a carefully developed and interactive dynamic structure. The result brings awareness, and insight into where you are, where you want to go, what winds are blowing, and where your pitfalls and obstacles lie. This equips you to make better decisions, navigate more purposefully, and grounds you - both in your own center as well as in the shared relationship spaces that might arise on your path.
|Beta test this Relationship Path Mapping Journey?
|As I'm currently fine-tuning the research structure and interactive guidance environment, I'm seeking a few beta testers who are willing to map out their relationship path in exchange for feedback, thinking along, and an investment of only €120 (estimated value afterwards: €450-€900). Get in touch and I'll provide you with more details about the journey, and we'll determine if we're a good fit for this pilot. Because self-exploration is not for everyone: you need to possess at least some analytical capacity, be capable of working independently, and be willing to practice radical honesty with yourself. As a beta tester, you should also be willing to provide (constructive) feedback – and, of course, we need to have a degree of synergy ;)
Please note: During your self-exploration and mapping process as well as during our guidance sessions, you'll gain profound insights, and by the end of the journey, you'll have a meta-perspective of your unique path. However, the in-depth exploration of themes that may arise or undergoing therapeutic work around limiting patterns that you may encounter on this trajectory may require additional work. As doing this type of self-research is rigorous and intensive, and also may potentially be confronting, I have decided to offer it only in combination with additional Counseling Sessions. (Of course, you're also free to choose to do sessions with a psychologist or other therapist alongside your Relationship Path Mapping journey.)
Interested in embarking on this personalized trajectory and help me fine-tune it as a beta tester? Please get in touch to see if we're a match.
Alternatively: Sign up for the waiting list to embark on your very own Relationship Path Mapping adventure in early 2024
Shared Center Work Themed Sessions (with partner(s))
My abovementioned services consist of individual one-on-one sessions. However, when you are in a relationship, two (or more) relationship paths converge. This means it becomes a co-creation alongside being an individual endeavor: a shared relationship space emerges between the partners - with its own dynamic.
In Shared Center Work Themed Sessions, this dynamic takes center stage. This is not your typical 'learning to dialgue' traditional relationship counseling: my sessions follow the unique and very effective #theListeningRevolution* method, which I developed in collaboration with psychologist and listening expert Saskia Zwijnenburg. Through this method, you and your partner will explore and transform a theme that influences the undercurrent of your shared relationship space together, from an equal and therefore much safer base. You will both feel deeply heard and seen, gain unexpected insights regarding your theme, and walk away with concrete steps for the future that fit each individual's relationship path.
Joining for the first time? Then first schedule a Shared Center Work Intake conversation. In this mutually no-strings-attached 45-minute session, we'll get to know each other, you'll receive (supervaluable!) insights into your shared space, we'll explore what undercurrents you'd like to listen to together, and how I can best support you.
|Shared Center Work
|Shared Center Work Intake (45 mins)
|Themed Session with a partner (1,5-2 uur)
|Themed Session with more participants (e.g. children or bonus parents)
|On request (in some cases I will ask a second facilitator to join us)
|Rental fee external location (if needed)
Click here to book your session.
If you would like to Map your Relationship Path or receive Relationship Path counseling in addition, please indicate that on the contact form.
*This method, in an adapted format, is also available as a transformative group listening process in organizations. For more information, please visit the website: De Meisjes van de Ronde Tafel (the Girls of the Round Table).
Mini Check-in Sessions Customized Untanglement Support
There might be instances when you have an urgent question or require support, while the next session is still some time away. Or perhaps, in addition to your ongoing journey, you could benefit from extra reminders or 'pit stops' in between sessions - or to consolidate lessons after a completed trajectory.
If you feel a need for occasional or customized extra clarity and disentanglement support, you can request it through WhatsApp or via this form. I offer Mini Check-in Sessions in 15-minute time slots – which I can usually make time for at quite short notice, and that I find often are enough time to help you re-center.
|Short question via app
|Free of charge
|Mini Support Session per 15 min
|Extra Support as an explicit part of trajectory
|No extra charge
Note: Customized Extra Support is only available for existing clients and serves as a supplement to, not a replacement for, sessions or trajectories, in which we delve much deeper.