On this page you will find information about the various ways you can work with me on the relationship with yourself, others, and your surroundings:
One-on-one Relationship Path Work©:
- Relationship Path Exploration Session (getting acquainted, insights & disentanglement in an extra-long individual session)
- Relationship Path Counseling Trajectory (individual in-depth counseling trajectory)
- Relationship Path Mapping - **my signature method** (a taylor-made individual self-research journey, guided by me, in combination with counseling)
With a partner:
- Shared Center Work© themed sessions (listening to the undercurrent with partner(s))
- I also offer partners the opportunity to do a dual Relationship Path Mapping (i.e. two self-research journeys that are shared with each other)
You will also find information about:
- Additional client support via Mini Check-in Sessions
- Answers to Frequently Asked Questions.
Relationship path Exploration Session
An extra long 1.5 hour in-depth session, in which we'll explore whatever is currently on your mind relationship wise - whether it's the challenge of finding a fulfilling relationship, a question you're grappling with in your current relationship, or the struggle to move on after a break-up. No topic is too strange, everything is open for discussion and exploration. Together, we'll listen deeply and work towards gaining clarity about your situation, ultimately identifying concrete follow-up steps that are tailored to your unique needs.
Exploration sessions can be used standalone (it's not uncommon that one session is all you need to find your bearings!); but also function as the starting point for a deep-dive counseling trajectory or personally customized version of the signature 'Relationship path Mapping Journey', in which I walk alongside you for a longer period.
1,5-hour relationship path exploration | Investment* |
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Exploration Session (1st exploration) | €89 (single-use introduction rate for our first extra long session of 1,5 hours) |
Try it risk-free: though we'll dive in right away, if after our first 20 minutes you feel I'm not a good fit for you as a connection guide, we can end the session and there will be no payment obligation.
Prefer to just get acquainted first? Let's have a cup of tea on a 20-minute call! This no obligations 'see-if-we-click' & sparring call is completely free of charge - and can be expanded with 70 minutes to a full Exploration Session (usually at a later time), so you'll keep your 1st exploration rate.
Exploration Sessions are online, unless otherwise agreed. Regular price €148,=
* Are you on a low income (or live in a low income country!), and is the investment too much for you? Then contact me. Also see the frequently asked questions at the bottom of this page about my 'pay it forward' initiative.
Relationship path Counseling trajectory
Delving deeper into something that is at play, working through it, or exploring a new issue to regain clear direction. All themes are welcome: relationship decision making, grieving breakups, addressing recurring patterns, as well as managing anxiety and tension surrounding relationships. I truly walk alongside you, providing exercises and insights for connection, utilizing stories and therapeutic methods to untangle complexities – tailored to where you are and what you currently need.
By the end of your trajectory, you will have gained more understanding of relevant aspects within your relationship landscape, regained clarity in your direction, and developed a deeper insight into personal patterns. Additionally, you will have taken concrete steps towards handling these situations and continuing on your path in a more wise and effective manner.
Number of sessions | Investment |
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1-2 | €99 per hour |
3-4 | €89 per hour |
5-6 | €84 per hour |
7+ | €80 per hour |
Contact me to plan your Relationship Path Counseling Trajectory. We'll decide on the ideal duration and session length for your journey together.
Counseling sessions in a trajectory are in principle online. In specific cases (local and weather conditions allowing) they can also include outdoor sessions.
My signature one-on-one trajectory
Relationship path Mapping Customized Self-Research Journey
Do you suspect that there is a pattern that you yourself are a part of? Do you have a feeling that the larger system you live in highly influences your love life? Do you want to delve deeper into what is going on in your case and find direction, but don't know where to start?
Then sign up for a taylor-made guided self-research trajectory in which you'll map out your personal relationship path. Step by step, you will systematically uncover the aspects and lines that consciously and unconsciously have shaped your path, based on a carefully developed and interactive dynamic structure. The result brings awareness, and insight into where you are, where you want to go, what winds are blowing, and where your pitfalls and obstacles lie. This equips you to make better decisions, navigate more purposefully, and grounds you - both in your own center as well as in the shared relationship spaces that might arise on your path.
During your self-exploration and mapping process as well as during our guidance sessions, you'll gain profound insights, and by the end of the journey, you'll have a meta-perspective of your unique path. However, the in-depth exploration of themes that may arise, or learning to actually transform limiting patterns that you may encounter on this trajectory requires additional work. Because doing this type of self-research is rigorous and intensive, and also may potentially be confronting, I offer it only in combination with a minimum of 5-7 Relationship path counseling sessions. This way you won't get stuck in 'analysis paralysis' but will move from awareness of your patterns to integrating desired changes and making these sustainable.
Elements | Investment |
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Complete taylor-made interactive self-inquiry map with 5 core modules ('areas'), in a password-protected enviroment (app), incl. personal instruction calls and full 'limiting belief' coding | €350 |
5 (minimum) or 7 (recommended) transformative relationship path counseling sessies | €400 or €525 |
Extra modules (optional) | Fully personalised; price upon request |
Extra counseling sessions (optional) | €80 per hour |
Embark on this taylor made self-inquiry journey straight away?
Shared Center Work© Themed Sessions - with partner(s)
My abovementioned services consist of individual one-on-one sessions. However, when you are in a relationship, two (or more) relationship paths converge. This means it becomes a co-creation alongside being an individual endeavor: a shared relationship space emerges between the partners - with its own dynamic.
In Shared Center Work© Themed Sessions, this dynamic takes center stage. This is not your typical 'learning to dialgue' traditional relationship counseling: my sessions follow the unique and very effective Onderstroomluisteren© ('Listening to the undercurrent'*) method. Through this method, you and your partner will explore and transform a theme that influences the undercurrent of your shared relationship space together, from an equal and therefore much safer base. You will both feel deeply heard and seen, gain unexpected insights regarding your theme, and walk away with concrete steps for the future that fit each individual's relationship path.
Joining for the first time? Then first schedule a Shared Center Work Intake conversation. In this mutually no-strings-attached 45-minute session, we'll get to know each other, you'll receive (supervaluable!) insights into your shared space, we'll explore what undercurrents you'd like to listen to together, and how I can best support you. There's a guarantee from my side: the intake session is free (you'll get a full refund) if I feel we're not a good fit.
Shared Center Work© | Investment |
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Shared Center Work Intake (45 mins) | €75 |
Themed Session with a partner (1,5-2 uur) | €175 |
Themed Session with more participants (e.g. children, bonus parents, or others that are part of the relationship) | On request (in some cases I will ask a second facilitator to join us) |
Rental fee external location (if needed) | Excluded |
Our intake session is online, unless otherwise agreed. Themed Sessions are usually on location.
Tip: If you are interested in (dual) Relationship Path Mapping, or would like to receive (additional) individual Relationship Path counseling, please indicate that at 'message' on the booking form!
*Onderstroomluisteren© ('Listening to the undercurrent'), which I developed in collaboration with psychologist and listening expert Saskia Zwijnenburg, is also available as a transformative group listening process in teams, startups & organizations.
For more information, please visit Onderstroomluisteren.nl (in Dutch).
Mini Check-in Sessions Customized Untanglement Support
There might be instances when you have an urgent question or require emotional support, while the next session is still some time away. Or perhaps, in addition to your ongoing journey, you could benefit from extra reminders or 'pit stops' in between sessions - or to consolidate lessons after a completed trajectory 🌱
I offer Mini Check-in Sessions in 15-minute time slots – which I can usually make time for at quite short notice, and that I find often are enough time to help you re-center.
Do you feel a need for occasional or customized extra clarity and disentanglement support? When you book a session or trajectory, you will get access to the special planning link for Mini Check-in support.
Extra Support | Investment |
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Short question via app | Free of charge |
Mini Support Session per 15 min | €20 |
Extra Support as an explicit part of trajectory | No extra charge |
Note: Customized Extra Support is only available for existing clients and serves as a supplement to, not a replacement for, sessions or trajectories, in which we delve much deeper.